Can 14 year old really fall in luv or is it just a faker….?????
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Posted: 04 April 2010 02:25 AM
i personally think that we can. if adults can do it then why cant we? i mean we are all human and we all have different personalitys everyone can love. so why cant we fall in love at an early age? doesnt make a difference to me whether ur 47 or 13. who cares how old you are.!!!!!!!!!
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Response number 1
Posted: 04 April 2010 06:30 PM
I think that u have to build up that love. You can’t think that if you fall in love than that is it and you should be married or watever you think. I think that love is possible but with some work to making the relationship work for both people. Possible but harder than everyone makes it out to be..
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Response number 2
Posted: 05 April 2010 02:05 AM
I think a 14 year old can fall in love, but is it real? Basicly all relationships at 14 end in a few months. I have seen so many girls fall in love. My sis & a boy were in love at like 14, and she thought it would last forever. It lasted quietly for a couple years, she started to grow up, and he didn’t. She’s mature for 18, but he’s still immature so she was basicly his mother and theripist for a while. She regrets ever getting into love at 14. She was always upset at him in the end. WAIT UNTILL YOUR BOTH ACTUALLY MATURE. Seriously. Even if you don’t believe it now. What’s a few years boyfriend-less to getting your heart broken over and over again. There’s an obvious better choise. I’v actually figured out the secret to lasting bf’s. Wait untill your old enough to get married. I’m serious. If you look around, you’ll see a pattern. When your 20 look back on your wasted time on boys who hurt you, and then look at your current boyfriend. You’ll be so much happier. Yes, 14 year olds might love someone, but in a couple of months you’ll be like “why the heck was that my guy of choise?” I’m a 14 year old girl. I know how hard it is to be single with everyone around you dating and every song on the radio makes you think of your crush. But I’m telling you, wait.
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Response number 3
Posted: 05 April 2010 02:51 PM
I think a 14 year old can fall in love but we also fall to fast…...sure its possible for a 14 year old 2 find love so young but theres only a 25% chance that the love will last
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Response number 4
Posted: 06 April 2010 05:11 PM
duh i know they can. im in love. and im 14. so yes they can and it can possibly last!!
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Response number 5
Posted: 06 April 2010 05:48 PM
fat chance it will last. like coupe said, u BOTH have 2 be mature and if u both are NOT then 1 of u becomes mature, it will change everyfink. LODS. my bro was never mature at 14, and still kinda ain’t so his relationships never last.
k, i lie. he got a girlfriend in november ‘09. tho every1 in our family hates her!!! we all know its gona last long tho. that’s why every1 is holding a grudge on her. she smokes and he is asmatic.
[ Edited: 06 April 2010 06:11 PM by simplyme]
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Response number 6
Posted: 30 April 2010 05:03 PM
I think most of what you see everywhere are teens “falling in love” and after a couple of days of dating they say “I Love You, Forever And Always” I’m 14 also, and I am most definitly in love. And we are both very mature for our age. And it doesn’t even seem like it’s just one of those middle school relationships. It’s so much more than that. And you have to ask yourself every single day “Am I ready to be with this person for the rest of my life?” Because Love Never fails. And if that relationship fails. Then it was never love in the first place. Both of the partners in the relationship have to be honest and faithful to one another or it’s never gonna work.
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Response number 7
Posted: 28 July 2010 07:45 PM
I think it can be real. My Great-Great-Great Grandparents fell in love in sixth grade and got married!!!!!!!! But that’s very rare. But i think it’s possible.
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Response number 8
Posted: 06 November 2010 05:07 PM
I think a 14 year old can fall in love, but is it real? Basicly all relationships at 14 end in a few months. I have seen so many girls fall in love. My sis & a boy were in love at like 14, and she thought it would last forever. It lasted quietly for a couple years, she started to grow up, and he didn’t. She’s mature for 18, but he’s still immature so she was basicly his mother and theripist for a while. She regrets ever getting into love at 14. She was always upset at him in the end. WAIT UNTILL YOUR BOTH ACTUALLY MATURE. Seriously. Even if you don’t believe it now. What’s a few years boyfriend-less to getting your heart broken over and over again. There’s an obvious better choise. I’v actually figured out the secret to lasting bf’s. Wait untill your old enough to get married. I’m serious. If you look around, you’ll see a pattern. When your 20 look back on your wasted time on boys who hurt you, and then look at your current boyfriend. You’ll be so much happier. Yes, 14 year olds might love someone, but in a couple of months you’ll be like “why the heck was that my guy of choise?” I’m a 14 year old girl. I know how hard it is to be single with everyone around you dating and every song on the radio makes you think of your crush. But I’m telling you, wait.
Like coupe said u might as well wait for ur true love until u r old enough to really know if u r in love or not.
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Response number 9
Posted: 05 May 2011 06:28 PM
LOLOLOLOL.
yes.
Look. The younger you are, the purer I think your feelings are. When you get older, it’s likely about lust or money or whatever. If it was all about “love” then why are divorce rates so high? To the people who say “Oh, relationships at that age don’t last!”
Relationships at ANY age don’t last, so why wait?
When you’re a teenager I think it’s easier to fall in love with someone based on feelings and nothing else, unless you’re a horny guy.
Fall in love. Date. Anyone who says you’re too young to fall in love can stuff it.
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Response number 10
Posted: 05 May 2011 07:15 PM
K, so I just stopped studying JUST so I could type this. BECAUSE I TOTALLY FEEL DIFFERENTLY.
14 year olds can definitely fall in love; I fall in love all the time! But, the thing is love at 14 isn’t as stable and meant to last as a relationship at what…18? Maybe older.
Don’t get me wrong, because like I said, you can definitely fall in love at that age. But, come back to me when you break their heart, or yours is broken. I’ve had my plenty, and I know that relationships at younger ages aren’t meant to last. They’re meant to enjoy the moment…have fun at a young age! Experience “love” so you can be prepared for a stable one when you get older.
Also, I’m sure being in love at 14 is different for being in love at 18 or 19 or older. I can’t really explain how…but it’s just different.
AND I MUST STATE THIS NOW. ALLLLLL boys at 14 who are willing to date can/will be pigs. I’ve had my experience, and well, they just are. It might be hard to think this way when you’re actually dating them, but they are. It’s in their biology! So, be warned. Don’t let them rush you into something you don’t want to do.
So lastly, so I don’t bore you with reading too much, live your life and don’t let things like this push you down when a relationship goes wrong (oh, and it will, hon) at 14! THESE RELATIONSHIPS AREN’T MEANT TO LAST. Don’t hate me for saying this, but they truly aren’t. There’s a 99.9999999999% chance that this guy won’t be your husband in the future.KTHXBAI.
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