Can 14 year old really fall in luv or is it just a faker….?????
Response number 11
I think you just need to be really careful in who you pick.
Response number 12
you can, but it is most definitely likely that you’ll get your heart broken in the process:)
sorry for the neg:)
Response number 13
i think you can definitely fall in love in 14, but it just depends on the person. when you say “love” that doesn’t necessary mean forever. heck, there’s a lot of ways to fall in love. so you can really be in love as a teen. at least that’s what i think.
Response number 14
anyone can fall in love i guess even a 14 year old..though sometimes that love may not be true..‘cause maybe u’re too young and u may just like some1 and think u love him….not always right i guess , we’re still young so i think that the “love” doesn’t last that long..
srry..if i’m giving a neg. ans..
Response number 15
well, i guess you guys said it all !
Response number 16
i am in love with a guy and we have been datin for 2 years now, it can last.
Response number 17
Look. The younger you are, the purer I think your feelings are. When you get older, it’s likely about lust or money or whatever. If it was all about “love” then why are divorce rates so high? To the people who say “Oh, relationships at that age don’t last!”
Wow. As beautiful and sensible as that is, there is another point to love that you’re not contemplating.
As, yes, falling in love can be very simple and unadulterated when you are young, this love at such age, and plenty of more ages, will be highly idealized and foolish.
You’ll be in love with an image, a perception of the person you think you’re in love with.
It is very darn hard, no matter what your age is, to see the real person past that illusion.
The main problem is that you don’t even want to try. You’re so in love with that image, that feeling, you convince yourself it’s reality.
When you’re young you don’t even have what to compare this feeling to. The feeling or the person you’re in love with. You’re a fool, you don’t know life yet.
And I don’t mean that in a bad way, since being a fool has quiet a few advantages.
Anyways, when you’re young you’re easier to fool. You’re more probable to be carried away by the illusion because H! The feeling it gives you is beautiful, unadulterated, and pure.
I know it sounds like that’s my own sad story whatsoever, but I’m not a loving person. Just aren’t. Still, I’ve seen love from an outsider’s point of view, and that I came up with.
The thing about getting older is that you’ve been hurt. You have experience.
Yeah sounds horrid, but this facts are what help you get past the mirage and truly look at the person and stare at the person’s faults. Get mad at the person for them, actually blame him/her.
Dislike some things about him/her, find some parts of him/her unappealing.
And once you see all this things and still love that person then boom you’ve found love.
The love that lasts. The love that gets richer with time and grows into more.
It’s impossibly hard to find such at fourteen.
Heck, most people can’t find it in their entire lives!
But I can’t refrain you from loving. H, you have it you enjoy it. Just be careful with your own heart. Because you don’t know when the illusion is going to break for the other person. The brighter the light the longer the shadow, guys.
Response number 18
It’s possible but, also painful cuz it end on a sad note and it leaves you depressed and hurt especially if it’s your fault. and in the end you’ll end so depressed and hurt emotionally that you would effect the people around you and the people around you will notice trust me I WAS depressed for a little more than a year and everyone noticed and I hide my emotions so Yeah
Response number 19
yes.. i think so.. because love.. it doesn’t really have an age limit or qualification or something.. the odds of lasting together and marrying each other in the future are a bit against you, though..especially since at that age, you’re still trying to figure out who you are.. but it’s not entirely impossible..
i know someone who fell in love with a guy at 11 years old.. and now they are happily married..
so yeah.. i think you can fall in love at 14 years old..
Response number 20
its possible, a one in a million chance but it still happens. It just really depends on what kind of person you are and how serious your “love” is…
I also know a girl who’s been dating her best friend at 13 for four years and counting! so,if its possible for them, its possible for you….
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